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Why A Man Will Lose Interest!
 We all seek the answer to the why a relationship fails.
We all look to blame anyone else but ourselves most of the time.
Relationships are one of the biggest gambles of time, that we will invest in in our lives.
For those of you that chose careers instead, there are also risks.
Some of us jump right back into another relationship even before we have had time to change our sheets!
We feel that it is necessary to do this in order to feel less pain from the last attempt.
We feel also that if we get involved quickly, we will can control the reality of our own failed part played in the failed relationship.
We do not give ourselves enough time to stop and think. Yes, sometimes we seriously need to do just that.
Once we gather all of our broken pieces and feelings of humiliation, then we need to step back and retrace our steps!
It is no different than losing an important coin or object. We immediately retrace our footsteps in order to find it.. Using that analogy in a relationship situation, it will help you to understand just where things began to fall away.
I have read many good books and articles on strategies and tips regarding finding that perfect relationship or that completely compatible mate, and I always come to this one single thought....action=reaction. Without action on my own individual part in creating a perfect mate, how can I expect anyone else to be perfect for me or how can I even identify one when I have no clue if I myself can fill that need. Which brings me to a certain author who has shared his many deep thoughts and understandings of men in his writings.
I have to say that Christan Carter has definitely pointed us (woman) in the right direction. It is very helpful to men in turn also because they are the winners in the end also.
In saying that, I am posting a few more links to even more effective reads from the author of Catch Him & Keep Him....Christan Carter!
Also try out this article!
Good Luck & try to really understand who you are before you take that step out into the game of seeking a mate!!
Keep moving forward!
~D~
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Posted: 3:32 PM, 2/15/2008 in Relationships |
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